Big occasions test the best and the toughest. They have always done so. Whether it is performing on a big event, or arranging and taking responsibilities for a mega event in your household or office, it is a huge task. It is not for everyone, it is not for the weak hearted, it is not for people who cannot keep their words and it is not for people who possess a confused psyche.
There are so many trivial things to be thought about, besides the big issues, that it can drive the hell out of even an organized mind. Things can get even tougher if you tend to depend on outsiders to get your job done. If these people have a sniff that you do not have too much backing from family members, they tend to pounce on you. Absurd demands are made, illogical adjustments are expected from you and you tend to feel like a slave to their fancy whims and thoughts.
Such occasions demand a savior, who can be rude, straightforward and even shameless at times, and who can give you advice. Tough situations require tough words and these people provide you with that. Sometimes to get yourself out of a hole that others have dug for you, you need to be outspoken yourself or take help from outspoken people. They can save you a lot of pain and, at the same time show people around you that you are no pushover.
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