Filtering out good moments of the past gives you bliss…

I had written in one of my earlier posts that a loving wife is God’s most precious gift. The reason for that is, not only does she shower you with love and affection, but she also gives you peace of mind and she boosts your self-confidence. One of the main ways that she does this so easily is by helping you to learn to filter out good moments of the past and remember them.

If you are able to it, then you would never be depressed in your life. You would not be jealous of the happiness of others, you would not frown unnecessarily at your wife, nor would you hamper your professional performance by staying grumpy. At the same time, you would create more happy moments for yourself and your family. So it is a win-win situation for you.

There are people like me who have used their sharp memorising skills in excellent fashion for academics and professional achievements. However, it is this same attribute that creates mayhem when you want to forget some bitter memories. This aspect has also been covered in one of my posts. However, there are not many fortunate people around who have the blessing of a fiancée like Kuhu, who is always trying to help me to get rid of bitter experiences and help me smile every time. The results are finally starting to show, and it is a feeling from within.

In few of the many days that we have spent together, there have been traces of misunderstandings here and there, as is common in any relationship. However the great thing is she has made me forget all that and keeps on reminding me only the sweet memories, the laughter and the jokes. I am slowly beginning to discover the secrets of true happiness, and that is all because of her untiring and fructuous efforts. She has been subservient in her presence but domineering in her impact, and that is where she has made herself special.

It is not that I never have a modicum of negative thoughts now, but I have definitely learnt to differentiate the diamond from the glass. It has given me bliss and peace of mind. I can now enjoy every moment, even the dull ones which would have normally angered me, with exuberance and remembrance of treasured experiences.