A loving wife is God’s most precious gift…..

The ultimate aim for any man, whether he is a billionaire industrialist, a sportsperson, a film personality or a lesser mortal like me, is to have a loving and understanding wife. There would be innumerable opinions about the advantages of being single, about the infidelities of women, about their tantrums, but at the end of it all, it is the wife who fills up all the void spaces in a man’s life. If a mother brings up a child and cares for him till he is established as a young man, the wife sustains and augments that state for the rest of the man’s life with her love, sympathy, affection and understanding. She makes her man a better human being, a wonderful and caring father, an achiever in the professional field, and of course, a sweet husband.

The one quality which I feel separates all women from that ONE special woman in your life is chastity. Chastity will be the first virtue that you would notice in a loving wife. Any man, who however he may have strayed in life, can be brought back to the right path by a gentle, loving and chaste wife. As Lord Krishna had rightly pointed out in the Mahabharata, that Pandavas should be held completely responsible for the disrobing of Draupadi in an open court, because it was they who had treated their wife Draupadi as a commodity and gambled with her, against the trickery of Shakuni. A wife can never be a chattel, but she is a life-partner, and hence should never be gambled with.

It is this loving wife who can hold a family together; it is the wife who can possess the gravity and maturity that any husband would be proud of. If she leaves you, you will disintegrate mentally and emotionally very quickly before even realising it. So do not be rude to her, do not insult her, do not make her cry but respect her as you would do the same for a goddess, because in reality, she is God’s most treasured gift to you, because of all your good deeds in life.

I am indeed proud to say that my mother was such a wife, and my love, my would-be wife, Kuhu, has every possibility to become the ideal loving wife that every man dreams for. I trust both of them immensely, and I am really lucky to have both of them, especially Kuhu, since she has come so close to me in just over two months, in my life right now.